1-19-17
Very good day
Good interview. Finished catio porch. Recycled. Vino with Toni.
Meditated - I went to my inner world and Attended spaghetti dinner with family @ ranch. Hung out with Lee/Margie, Grandma/Grandpa, Donald/Jo, Melvin/Margaret, Russ and Mom. I asked if there is anything anyone wanted to tell me? Any clues as to my root wounding?
Lee said 'Don't give up on being a forklift operator'. I left the dinner and went back to the gate. Russ told me to go hang out at the Well.
As I walked I was accompanied by Beauty, Blue & Lulu. As I got to the Well, I was approached by Himself. He gave me a cup of my essence which he had taken without permission and wanted to return to me. He asked if we can still be friends. I said yes.
I sat down for 'Tea' for 4. Brigid as Maiden, Biddy Early as Crone. Me as Queen. My Mom showed up as possible one to sit down as Mother, but it didn't feel right. Then Cerridwen sat down. I led chant and had us all grab wrists to form Brigids cross. We circled around my essence tea and candle. "We are 4, the flame is One". I drank and breathed in the green essence tea.
Then I said goodbye and walked out the gate.
Later I watched the movie Big Fish. At the end, at the fathers funeral, all his friends showed up. I thought about my Mom and how she didn't want a funeral. She used to tell me that after Jo died, she didn't have any friends. They were Dads friends, not hers.
My epiphany is that I am Not like my Mom when it comes to friends. I've built my life on making friends and I value them so much. It's like another spell was broken. I'm not the keeper of my Moms myth about friends. She had friends, but she did not claim them. I totally claim my friends!! My friends are my roots. They hold the stories and memories of who I am today. My friends know my struggles and triumphs. My friends have my back. I Need my friends. I need people. My Mom went through life denying that she needed anyone else. Denying she needed friends. Well fuck that story. It's NOT my story! I am Not cut off from people. I am NOT cut off from my ancestors. I am NOT and will NOT be cut off from my friends whom I love. My story is my friends.