Today's critter is - Dragonfly

Damselfly/Dragonfly's Wisdom Includes:

• Mastery of life on the wing
• Power of flight
• Power to escape a blow
• Understanding dreams
• Power of light
• Breaking down illusions
• Seeing the truth in situations
• Swiftness
• Change
• Connection to Dragon

After the weekend I just had - this is excellent. I moved through a complex weekend of maneuvering, spent with a friend, who upon arriving for a visit - pestered me all weekend for more than friendship. I did not cave, I established boundaries over and over. Once I dropped him off at the airport - I took flight and zoomed home. The lesson for me here is to establish boundaries BEFORE I spend time with someone. Hey, I am still processing my experience from this Spring and I am not prepared to move into something else. I know this because whenever I even consider it, I end up all ungrounded and either hurting myself physically or getting this new weird inner ear thing. I will know when I am ready, and it just isn't going to be this summer. ( I don't think?) My inner knowing tells me that this process may take 1-2 years to find a partner. In the mean time, I am seldom interested in anything casual. That just seems to muddy up my energy or just gets me all stirred up and complicated. For today I will pay attention to the lessons of Dragonfly.